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WELCOME… WELCOME to the life that is having a BAD TIME.
Hello, I am your unknown friend who is facing the same problem you have — “Bad Time”.
I’m an IT engineer, a working professional with more than 2 years of hands-on experience, but still, my life is not going well.
Lots of work burden? NOPE.
Less salary? NO.
Then WHAT… WHAT…
And to that, I would say a big YES.
Yes — even without a breakup, without losing a job, and without any major problems, you can still have a bad time. And that is exactly what happened to me. Even after having everything — good people, good life — I still felt stuck.Even after having things like money, friends, family, job, etc., you can still feel trouble in life.
But why… why?? Think about it. If everything is going good, if you have enough money to spend, if life is comfortable, then why does bad time appear out of nowhere?
And when you do, all you get is a BIG QUESTION MARK — and silence. Just silence.
Isn’t it?
A closed room.
A beer bottle.
A big fight.
Nothing else.
And that is the reason we don’t know how to answer WHY when things go wrong. Shocking, right? But have we ever asked the same question to ourselves? I would say NO.
We blame God, we blame people, we blame situations. But have you asked yourself: Because God says, “Just live the life, don’t think about the result.”, “What happens in your life is according to my plan.” And we know we can’t change God’s plan. But we also know that every bad time is followed by a better time, because God always has a better plan than us. Right? This is something we’ve heard many times in life.
“Reasons for hard times,”
“7 signs of a tough phase,”
and so on… endless advice.
Nobody talks about the exact situation YOU are facing right now.
Wait, wait… you might be thinking: No workload and no low salary, then how can someone have a bad time? And that’s when I realized something shocking: Have you ever asked yourself this question? You have a home, a job, a girlfriend/wife, money, lifestyle — then why does a bad time still come? Have you asked yourself this question?
Questions like:
WHY did the happiest moments suddenly stop?
WHY did the money that was growing suddenly go into loss?
WHY did a breakup or divorce suddenly happen?
WHY… WHY… WHY… and WHY?
Endless WHYs… and the only answer is darkness.The real problem is that we never try to ask the question “WHY?” when things are going well. Maybe… we never even tried to ask WHY we are happy. When we go through a bad time, we start complaining and automatically create a long list of WHYs for God.
In bad times, we never blame ourselves.
WHY is this bad time coming?
WHY can’t it also be a GOOD TIME?
And if yes, can you answer that WHY?
Life is full of questions, and we must accept that we cannot find answers to all of them. And yes — there are many websites, blogs, YouTube videos, all talking about: But let me tell you — all these things only make sense when you are in a good state of mind to read and understand them.
Nobody talks about the exact situation YOU are facing right now.
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